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26 Years of Quiet Love: Farewell to My Beloved Baby

Forever my Big Baby Introduction: The Gentle Shadow On April 19, 2000, a tiny terrapin quietly crawled into my life and changed it forever. I bought her from a little neighborhood shop at my local market, the kind that sold ornamental fish, pet food, and basic aquarium supplies (the shop has long gone) . Back then, I actually brought home two or three baby terrapins. Being so young and not knowing much about pet care, the others sadly didn't survive very long. I still remember the tears I cried back then (not as much as this time) , gently burying one in a small hole I dug downstairs at our HDB block. Completely unaware at the time that digging there wasn't permitted! But through it all, one strong, resilient little soul stayed with me: my Big Baby (my parents called her Gui Gui (乌龟的龟) . In those early days, we really had no idea how to properly raise a terrapin. We simply learned as we went. I started with a small, basic tank, changing her water every single day and feeding h...

Since I left

It has been 3 mths plus since I left my previous company. Heard many things from my guy. Hahah... Thank God I left. I am so glad. Cos I can't stand the fact that this division is expanding in a way too fast which not mani ppl can adapt.

My guy is left to do lotsa thingy. Cos I'm nt there to help anymore. He has to get used of not having mi ard. This is e only way he learnt from his work. Bt responsibility and work load increased yet no increase in remuneration. So do you think is fair? He has sacrificed quality time with mi to work. Though overtime pay compensates all, bt do u tink is good enuff? I don't think so. Even though money is impt to both of us bcos of our future, bt stil quality time is impt. 

Money + Quality time must b balanced.

Insomnia is the reward that he gets for his hard work. Is this what he want? Definite NO!

Spend lotsa time searchin for remedy for his serious insomnia prblm bt stil nth helps. I think if he leaves this company, his prblm shd b solved. Bt if he goes to another company, I think is yet another nightmare for him.

Well... I am stil in search of solutions. If nt, he will b 'attack' by lotsa diseases like high blood etc.

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