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Thriving in Old Age: Simple Care Strategies

When we were kids, it wasn’t easy for our parents to watch us grow up and transition into independent adults. Now watching our parents grow older is never easy too, especially when memory begins to fade. Over the past few years, particularly since the COVID period, I started noticing small changes in my mum as time goes by. At first, it was forgetfulness. Then it began to hit hard with repetition, confusion, and moments that felt unfamiliar. Brought them out to the mall for a walk. What makes it harder is that my dad is her primary caregiver (when his own health is no better) , managing almost everything at home while the rest of us live separately. Like many families, we’re learning as we go, figuring out how to support both of them in ways that are practical, sustainable, and compassionate. Please don't pretend you haven't been frustrated at all during this process. We all know how hard it's been. The more you care, the more it gets into you. So, are you really okay? If y...

Is a BABY month

Right! This is crazy! 3 babies's party in a month! Mad! I m always attending all these thingy. Den when is my turn where other's attend mine? Basically, is al abt kids. So I m nt goin to buy expensive stuff. Cos once they grow up, it wil b put aside. Well... I m so terrified sia when I saw another FB event which is another 1 yr old party. Sian... Damn boring... No more liao if 2 yrs old. Straight reject. I seriously dun like attendin sia. Waste my money. Though is some sort like a gathering for all the Dearies, bt damn sian... Dun care ar. I work within my budget. Nt necessary ones, I just go about digging those new soft toys of mine and give! F***! Nw my plan is this:
  1. Baby shower: Alrite. That one can go about spending more.
  2. 1st birthday: $50 below budget.
  3. 2nd birthday: Pick from my new soft toys or dun go!
  4. 3rd birthday onwards: NO MORE!
Not that I am very stingy, but I have to tink for myself. Hmphf!

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