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Thriving in Old Age: Simple Care Strategies

When we were kids, it wasn’t easy for our parents to watch us grow up and transition into independent adults. Now watching our parents grow older is never easy too, especially when memory begins to fade. Over the past few years, particularly since the COVID period, I started noticing small changes in my mum as time goes by. At first, it was forgetfulness. Then it began to hit hard with repetition, confusion, and moments that felt unfamiliar. Brought them out to the mall for a walk. What makes it harder is that my dad is her primary caregiver (when his own health is no better) , managing almost everything at home while the rest of us live separately. Like many families, we’re learning as we go, figuring out how to support both of them in ways that are practical, sustainable, and compassionate. Please don't pretend you haven't been frustrated at all during this process. We all know how hard it's been. The more you care, the more it gets into you. So, are you really okay? If y...

Mind is set

After some thots and encouragement from my guy, I set my mind to take up my degree course in SIM.

Did some calculation. Means tat I have to forgo my holidays and savings for 2 years. What to do? For a beta future, either one of us hv to do it. So I will go ahead. Cos if both of us study, no money for our flat. Tats why I keep telling him to take out his cash investment to put in e bank. Though he lost in investment and haven earn back the losses, but now we nit more cash. Hope he listen.

Not totally I can't save up during this 2 years but it is just that bits. I gotta scrimp and save even harder. 加油!

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