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Thriving in Old Age: Simple Care Strategies

When we were kids, it wasn’t easy for our parents to watch us grow up and transition into independent adults. Now watching our parents grow older is never easy too, especially when memory begins to fade. Over the past few years, particularly since the COVID period, I started noticing small changes in my mum as time goes by. At first, it was forgetfulness. Then it began to hit hard with repetition, confusion, and moments that felt unfamiliar. Brought them out to the mall for a walk. What makes it harder is that my dad is her primary caregiver, managing almost everything at home while the rest of us live separately. Like many families, we’re learning as we go, figuring out how to support both of them in ways that are practical, sustainable, and compassionate. Please don't pretend you haven't been frustrated at all during this process. We all know how hard it's been. The more you care, the more it gets into you. So, are you really okay? If you’re in a similar situation, here a...

4 days

Hmm... He has been busy with the reno works at his office.  Wah biang! Is confirmed early that today we are not meeting up.  Cos at nite he has works to carry out.  4 days!  Same like last wk.  Haiz... Until e reno works are done, I doubt he gt time for me.  Another way to comfort myself is that we save money.  Save more money for our holidays, our flat and wedding.  Bt I'm bored.  Bt I keep telling myself I'm left with not much of money to survive till next pay day which is next Thurs.  So is best too that I dun go out anyhow.  If nt, I'm gonna be broke.

I'm working this Sat.  Is he gonna accompany mi?  Am I going home after work instead of meeting him straight?  Haiz...  I m not hopeful tat he will meet mi on Fri. 

Everytime rch home, I oso duno wat to do.  I guess for today, I will stick to my schedule.  Shall go swimming.  Must not slack! No way!  If he is nt meetin TOM, I will oso go swimming since Sat I can't do anytin cos I'm workin.

Haiz... Work for money! Bt no matter wat, so long u work frm 8-5pm is stil work n u stil get paid.  So?????

Whateva.

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