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My Unexpected TikTok Revelations: A 40-Something’s Take on Gen Z

From my Point of View Disclaimer: This post is just my personal reflection as a 40-something creator navigating TikTok for the first time! It’s written with lighthearted curiosity and humor, not judgment. Every generation has its own unique way of communicating, expressing identity, and navigating the world. And the following are just a few observations that made me stop and think. Resistance, Realities and the Algorithm I’ll admit it: I was a late adopter. I didn't join TikTok until my mid-40s. For the longest time, I resisted opening an account simply because of its origins and all the hypes around it. But eventually, the creator side of me took over. I wanted more exposure for my YouTube Channel content, so I figured, why not cross-post to TikTok and see how it goes? What started out as a purely practical distribution tactic turned into a fascinating social experiment. Day by day, I found myself scrolling through the endless stream of short-form videos and began uncovering some...

Pre-Wedding Jittery

I know is a little too early to talk about it (like 6 more months before I get hitched) but I thought all these supposed to be planned early. So I told my parents last night and alas... they want to invite their friends too! WTF!

My guy and I wanted a simple yet presentable ROM wedding (which means solemnization + sit-down lunch + tea ceremony at a go) and not like ROM first then later hold wedding. NO NO NO!!!! I have a house renovation to settle. Unless my parents are going to force me to the verge of taking bank loan. They don't like but if they want too many stuff, I will. 

Anyway, my pre-honeymoon is burnt because of them!!!! 

Now I just hoping to look for sponsors:

1) Venue (cater for 80 paxs)
2) Wedding favors 
3) Makeup + Hairdo
4) Bridal shoot

Drop me a mail at iamstellachen@ymail.com and we can discuss further on that.

Simple right? The rest I think I can handle it. Because I have parents who want this and that when they are not the one paying. Make sure they give me good dowry. If not I flip face! Sorry to say I'm a perfectionist. Yet I'm easy. Contradicting right? Can't help. 

But all I care is my precious savings gonna fly away if the parents is gonna ask for more. 

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